MAKING MARRIAGE WORK 💍 💍

Marriage, is a great Institution after God own Heart💞. Is an institution you will be awarded a Certificate before starting so it needs a lot of work, attention and care. Whether you have been married for a day, week, month, two or years, learning how to make your marriage work is not an easy task at all. The reason is that, is two separate individuals that have come together with their likes, dislikes, physical, social, emotional, sometimes spiritual differences and subsequently will have arguments, until they learn to accept their differences and work towards them, stand for their strength and try their best in dealing with their weakness.

Each and every one has weakness no matter who the person is. Be there for one another in strength and weakness and you will love and enjoy it all.  Marriage needs to enjoyed not endured. You see people enjoying their marriages and you pray and wish for such, it is not that they have never disagreed, drifted apart or slept on the sofa or floor for a day(s) and night(s). They have, but they disagreed to agree because it is natural. Sometimes, it gets worst that some pack but finally, they find space and time to come back again because they vowed to make their marriage work in front of God and all saints of God. 

Making marriage works need a lot of hardworking, sacrifice, contentment, care, sorrows, sometimes pains, pampering, happiness, teamwork and determination. Note Marriage is a tight partnership between two inseparable individuals who share love, understanding, joy, anger, pains, bad times, good times and among others which is a difficult task to accomplish at times but by the grace of God, with endurance, peace, gentleness, kind-heartedness, love, understanding and the FEAR OF GOD which is an ULTIMATE GOAL in making a peaceful and lasting marriage possible. 

Using some words in marriage hurts, like I don't like the shape she's developed into, he/she is not fashionable, not my class again, too dull during sex, not current, older than me(especially when ladies are bit older than their husband's) and others, is not healthy because it easily tell people YOU aren’t MATURED. Your Husband or Wife defines you, Bible said TWO SHALL BE ONE NOT TWO SHALL BE TWO.  For you to enjoy marriage, you have to work on your spouse, make him or her what you want him or her to be. Teach, guide and make him or her You. Shape; help her to exercise, dull sex; teach her styles you want, not educated; enrol him/her into an adult class. Teach him/her Reading, accepting greetings and little things in English. Take him or her for dinner and outing sometimes. Make the home lively, help each other with chores and be there for each other. 

Respect one another, not making the HOME a HOUSE like SERVANTS AND THEIR MASTER but as LOVELY COUPLES, BEST OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY. 

Woman be SUBMISSIVE in all things and Man LOVE YOUR WIFE AS CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH. 

RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, HUMBLENESS, COMMON INTEREST, BEING THERE FOR EACH OTHER, ACCEPTING CHANGE, HAVING LISTENING EARS, SLOW TO ANGER, BEING THERE FOR FAMILY, ACCEPTING AND WORKING ON SPOUSE AS HE/ SHE IS, IS A BEST COMMODITY IN A MARRIAGE THAT HAVE A FUTURE. ABOVE ALL LET CHRIST BE THE CENTER OF YOUR HEARTS AND HOME, NEVER LEAVE CHRIST OUTSIDE, INVOLVE HIM IN ALL YOUR DEALINGS and your Marriage will be a SWEET-SCENTED AROMA THAT WILL SPICES OTHERS AND MAKE IMPACT ON GENERATIONS. 

ACCEPT AND KNOW CHRIST FOR YOURSELF NOW AND YOUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK. MARRIAGE ON EARTH IS THE SHADOW OF THE ORIGINAL (THUS CHRIST AND THE CHURCH). MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE RIGHT BY KNOWING GOD WELL MY DEAR. 

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Anyimah A. Patricia

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