MYTH πŸ‰ OF SOME MARRIAGES/ WEDDINGS TODAY


Most Marriages today has deviated from its originality or the real intention for creating the institution of marriage πŸ’. Most people πŸ‘¨πŸ‘¨πŸ‘¦ today have some pathetic, funny and other reasons for contracting their Marriages but we should know the original intention of God still stands because marriage πŸ’ on this earth is just the shadow of the original (CHRIST, THE GROOM and We His BRIDE).
Most marriages now are contracted on physical appearance/beauty, shape, body statures, wealth, legs, hips, back shape, front shape, for children and others. I know and believe Children are the gift from God to Couples so if you marry for that reason alone and you couldn't conceive then what will the marriage πŸ’ become; a living hell. If you marry because of wealth and your spouse lose all his/her wealth within a week, what will the marriage become, a house of cheating, frustration and depression. When you marry with beauty and shape and one week after your weeding, your spouse gets involve in an unwanted accident or circumstances where his/her beauty and shapes fades, can you still be there for the person till death πŸ’€ do us apart? Can you still stand by the vow you made to Him/ Her in front of God and the saints of God who we're gathered?
Some weddings now a days are contracted for challenging purposes, my friend did it so I need to meet that standard or go higher than His/Her's. Taking loans and using all our savings for huge refreshments, decor, wedding gowns that can cover Africa πŸ‡ΏπŸ‡¦, costly, shinning and glittering rings πŸ’, and all you can think of. Then After the ceremony we wallow in anger, hunger, fighting, not being able to provide 3 square meal a day. Aftermath we face the reality on the ground on our marriage πŸ’.
Is good to make your marriage ceremony a glorious one but better and best if we work towards the life after our wedding ceremony. Marriage must be ENJOYED NOT ENDURED.
Having a blossom wedding ceremony doesn't mean your marriage life will work that way. We have smooth and rough roads πŸ›£. One need to work hard to enjoy all this stages especially bad and rough times. That is how the CHRISTIAN JOURNEY IS, WE PASS THROUGH ROUGH AND SMOOTH ROADS πŸ›£ BUT IN ALL, IF WE STAND FIRM OUR END WILL BE GLORIOUS.
Make a conscious effort to make your marriage πŸ’ go beyond the ceremony and build a HOME 🏠 not a HOUSE after the marriage ceremony.
Dear, marriage ceremony doesn't mean your marriage will work or not and vice versa. We don't pay people πŸ‘¨‍πŸ‘¨‍πŸ‘¦ who did their wedding ceremony in a gargantuan way so pressure is upon you to do such.
Marriage must be full of sacrificing and understanding, coupled with love. Feelings may fade with time but understanding and sacrifice will make the marriage last and will make the bond between the two grow.
How lovely it is for couples πŸ’‘ to live in PEACE not PIECES, how lovely it is couples πŸ’‘ to make a HOME 🏠 not a HOUSE, how lovely it is for couple to STAND BY EACH OTHER IN WEAKNESS AND IN STRENGTH πŸ’ͺ, IN SORROWS AND IN HAPPINESS. How lovely it is to help your Spouse to be glorious in all aspect of life than the Formal, how lovely it is for Couples to help each other STAND FIRM IN THE TRUE FAITH OR HOLD πŸ‘­ FIRM TO CHRISTIAN JOURNEY πŸ’¦πŸ’ͺ. Because we are imperfect beings let do our best to forgive and also do our best not to push our spouse too much to the wall.
Your Marriage goes beyond wedding ceremony so let watch πŸ‘ out. Build trust from the start. The way You treat your Spouse will show how CHRIST TREAT YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE HIS SPOUSE TOOπŸ’¦πŸ’ͺ.
LOVE GOD, LOVE YOUR SPOUSE, THINK AND WORK TOWARDS THE LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE πŸ’ CEREMONYπŸ’¦πŸ˜πŸ˜˜
#Marriage for life#πŸ‘Œ✌πŸ’¦❤πŸ˜˜πŸ˜πŸ™.
#TrishnaBaabaMelody#
#Understand

Anyimah A. Patricia
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