VITAMINS OF MARRIAGE

The Crucial ingredients that makes marriage healthy and fit is what I call VITAMINS OF MARRIAGE. There are a lot of things that can make a marriage healthy, strong and ongoing but the most important which can't be taking out is the FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT within the Two Individuals. What is the Fruit of the spirit if someone may ask?  The Fruits of the Spirit are characteristics or traits of Jesus that are displayed in the life of a believer/Christian through the help of the Holy Spirit.  Let's Read from Galatians 5:22-23, But the Fruits of the Spirit is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self- Control. There is no law against Such. 

          Love, is one of mankind's basic needs in life. Love is the desire to feel cherished, wanted, appreciated, esteemed and to belong. Again, is a vacuum within us that yarns to be filled with affection, acceptance and intimacy. That's why Bible said, "even when we we're still sinner Christ died for Us" which means when we were still in the process, we were accepted, cherished and wanted by God. God gave us His Only begotten Son, that is to tell us, the heaviness of Love. God has designed human being in such a way that every man wants to be loved and respected by His Wife more than anything else and every woman craves for the emotional love and protection of Her Husband not mainly sex.                 

           I don't believe You will spend a lot of money to marry Your enemy. You will marry someone You love, who also have flaws as You have, weakness and strength, moods and others but in all, if the love of God dwells in Us we can work on the weakness as Spouse and embrace our strength to achieve a healthy home. Is not okay for You to only speak in Tongues as a Husband/Wife, but You have to combine the two. When it comes to praying, pray like You are dying today but also remember in Heaven, there is love,  joy, peace, patience, kindness and the rest but there is no casting out demons, no praying for healing, prophecies and others. 

      When we pray for the Fruit of the Spirit and we live with them within our marriages and lives as individuals, we would enjoy our marriages and create a healthy home. If You have the fruit in You, You wouldn't cheat, beat, insult and call names but You will rather, work at mistakes, respect views of other, be there for one another, share and use what You have, be content with Him/Her,  exercise patience, self control, kindness(helping hands, a chest to shed tears on, a hand that wipes tears, a mouth that encourages, that prays, a heart that forgives and want the best for us not me). 

        God's main focus and priority is marriage before the church, because in the beginning He created an institution of marriage that is starting with a Family (Adam and Eve). So through the Family we had the Church. When Marriage is strong the Church is stronger. When the Family is rooted in Christ, the Church has a future because is Families that comes together to make the Church,  so if we build the Family/Marriages through the leading of the spirit of God including His traits(friuts), our Churches and Country will have a glorious future. When one Marriage/Family fails, God restores it through the Church(thus another family who has set themselves apart for God). If Your marriage doesn't work, every success is seen by God as a failure cause You couldn't Shepherd the small church You we're given by Him. As a Pastor and Asafomaame in Your Home, You need to set Godly leadership example in the home before the church. Don't fail Your Home cause if that happens, You failed the church already.

     Check this, any time You see Your wife or Husband as unattractive, or the inner beauty You first saw in her has faded and He/She isn't Your type again then You are getting proud and the tendency for looking elsewhere is high. Never let Your anger lead You to sin against Your spouse but let love and patience lead. This is because words from angry soul kills the Love within Your partner. Disagreement  may arise in some issues but let the self control fruit we bear help us to be gentle with each other so we can disagree to agree at the end. Accept faults when wrong and apologize, work at it to prevent any misunderstanding. Like to sacrifice when one doesn't like something. 

        You can't be in marriage with only Your Heart but the Journey of Love and Marriage life should move with the Heart and Head, let reason with one another, that doesn't mean we are weak but strong to sacrifice and stand by the other. Let CHRIST be seen in the Center of Your Marriage,  and it can withstand every storm of life challenges. 

         To all singles, we' ve been given the power of choice by God to choose among individuals that life presents our ways. My Dear, every one has His/Her weakness but let Your choice not hinder You from loosing Your salvation. Someone who will accept You as You, Love All as One, and someone You can bond with, grow with in all spheres of Life. THE DECISION TO BE KIND AND GENEROUS TO YOUR SPOUSE IS REAL/TRUE LOVE ❤️ 🙏. 

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Anyimah A. Patricia

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